I made a few comments yesterday about President Obama's bow to Saudi King Abdullah when they met at the G20 last week.
A simple bow by the most powerful man in the world
The story has grown over these past 24 hours.
Time correspondent Scott MacLeod wrote in his Middle East Blog post yesterday: Why Obama's Saudi Bow was Not a Kow-Tow:
.... it's common sense to accord the Kingdom's elderly monarch a simple
gesture of respect. For Obama, who unapologetically seeks to build
bridges between Islam and the West, perhaps it's second nature, too.
I think that just about sums up what it amounted to - a simple gesture of respect.
Yet that is not how it seems to conservatives in the US:
On Fox News: Obama's Apparent Bow to Saudi King Outrages Conservatives speaks of the bitter taste left in many conservatives. At writing there were 263 comments, most very angry.
24thState.com, the writing of a self-described average man from Missouri, is horrified: Obama Bows To The King Of Saudi Arabia. He writes:
Notice he does a full bow, with his right leg going back to support his
weight as his knee bends. Bending your knee is a supremely different
bow then bending from the waist. It's a practiced bow you give to a
man you consider your superior. It's not a sign of respect. It's a
sign of subservience.
and that is not OK.
On WorldNet Daily we read: Obama Bows to Saudi King. They quote Jamie Glazov, the author of a book "United in Hate," which claims to "analyze the Left's contemporary romance with militant Islam". He said: "Obama's act actually was to be expected:"
Leftists have prostrated themselves
before despots throughout history – during the whole Cold War and now
vis-à-vis jihadists in the terror war. 'United in Hate' crystallizes
with precision how and why this dark process occurs." He cited the Obamas' less formal interaction with the queen earlier.
"Obviously, the queen does not wield totalitarian power and does
not mete out sadistic punishment – with which a believer yearns to
identify. The Saudi king, meanwhile, is a tyrannical entity to which
Obama can subjugate his individuality – and through which he can
vicariously experience a feeling of power and purpose.
With respect, what garbage. As is most of the comment which to be honest still sees Obama as a closet Muslim.
And the Weekly Standard focuses on the NYT which ignored the bow: The NYTimes Bows Before Obama, seeing conspiracy as ever.
I am reminded of a key moment in the history of China when in 1793 British Ambassador George Macartney refused to Kowtow to the Emperor of China. The Macartney Embassy was in Beijing to persuade the Chinese to ease restrictions on trade between Great Britain and China, one result of which would be to allow Britain to sell opium to China. It was correct form for anyone coming before the emperor to kowtow ( 叩头: Kòu tóu ), "an act of deep respect shown by kneeling and bowing so low as to touch the head to the ground." Macartney refused to so honour the emperor and the embassy failed. The issue then as now was that it seemed to them that for Macartney, to kowtow would be to acknowledge that his boss, George III, was subject to the Chinese Emperor.
Previous official visitors from Europe had kowtowed, and a few did in later years, but the last decade of the eighteenth century saw Europe and especially Britain on the rise to world domination, and very conscious of their own status in a way that had not previously been the case. Yet in my analysis that simple refusal is the hinge point in the relationship between China and the West. The failure to honour, or perhaps it should be said, the dishonouring of the emperor, set in process a decline in relationships between Britain and China that still has to be properly reversed.
Dishonour is a powerful thing. I once asked a Chinese person what reconciliation would look like in China. In other words what would give it meaning. His answer: honour. In my experience that has proved true. To honour is to reverse the trend of dishonour that China has felt from the west. And I do not believe it is only true of China. Its hard to know what was going through President Obama's mind, maybe it was just an intuitive gesture from a man who is attuned to different cultural values, but my response is "watch this space". It opened the door to his words about US relations with the Islamic world being heard later in the week.
The bow, the kowtow, indeed any other stylysed form of greeting; its all the same. All are expressions of greetings protocol that are typical of formal traditional cultures where. To go through the ritual is to go through a gate, to enter a circle of acceptance, to gain freedom to speak, to negotiate, etc. We do not understand that sort of culture. In the west formal protocol of greeting is all but gone, and no more so than in America. A shake of the hand, Hi!, a few words are all that is done - to seniors or younger, men or women, whatever their status. That is the protocol that so many bloggers seem to be defending in this story.
The message seems to be that participating in a greeting that involves humbling oneself is OK if you belong in that culture. Though to be honest even that is a grudging acceptance, with a very strong undertone of "our way is better and more civilised". Read Barack takes a bow, the Washington Times piece which has caused so much of the stir.
But it is definitely not the way Americans and so much of the West want to do diplomacy. I want to suggest that if there is any true greatness in our nations and their cultures, it will be reflected by a willingness to let go of that self-conscious hanging on to our reputation however many people we offend along the way. To be humble is not self deprecation; it is to admit who you are, and recognise the other person for who they are and even more, who God made them to be. That is what I see so often in Barack Obama. That is true greatness. And with that spirit it is possible to do a 90degree bow or a full flat kowtow and really mean it, even as a Christian President in front of a Muslim king or a Chinese Emperor. In the world of diplomacy today such a gesture is about honour, not obeisance or fealty.
I applaud Barack Obama's "simple gesture of respect." And I look forward to the result.